I recently purchased the book The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle because I was intrigued by this idea:
Depression is dwelling on the past, anxiety is dwelling on the future, and peace is dwelling on the present.
Maybe you’ve heard something like that before. There is a very similar quote attributed to Lao Tzu, although I’ve heard that it may be questionable who really said it.
But this idea that living in the present moment is the key to peace and happiness has been something I have been pondering for a while.
The premise of Tolle’s book is that depression is experienced because we are dwelling on negative feelings about the past, like regret, guilt, or self-loathing. Anxiety is experienced when we negatively dwell on the future, causing feelings of fear, worry, or dissatisfaction with life in general. True peace and happiness, according to Tolle, comes when we stop living so much in our heads, and take time to be present in the here and now.
There are examples in the Bible that would seem to echo this idea. The Lord’s prayer (Matthew 6:9-13) uses the phrase “give us today our daily bread” (NIV), which could imply that we only need to ask God for things concerning today (we don’t need to ask him for tomorrow’s bread, we just need today’s.) A little later in chapter 6, it says “therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.”
In the book of Exodus, when the Israelites are wandering in the desert, God provides daily food for them – manna and quail (ch. 16). The people are instructed to “go out each day and gather enough for that day.” Anyone who gathered more than a day’s worth found it to be rotting and “full of maggots” by the next morning.
Mindfulness, the practice of being fully present with where we are and what we’re doing, has been gaining popularity in Western culture over the past decade or so, and it also heavily utilizes the present moment, the NOW, to decrease stress and anxiety. Mindfulness meditations typically have you focus on sensations in your body and view your body and thoughts in a non-judgmental way. Headspace, one of my top picks, is a great app to check out for guided mindfulness meditations.
Obviously the idea of there being power in the now is not new or uniquely attributed to one person.
So what does it look like practically to live in the present moment?
Tolle suggests asking yourself the question “do I have a problem right now?” anytime you begin to negatively dwell on the past or future. Maybe you have a big presentation at work tomorrow that you’re stressing about. But right now, at this second, do you have a problem? More often than not, the answer may be “no.”
This doesn’t mean that it’s bad to prepare or think ahead, it just means that many times we worry so much about the past or the future, that we don’t actually enjoy the present. I know I’m certainly guilty of that.
Even anticipating a fun event, like a vacation, can get us too far out of the present. We may be so focused on getting to the beach (or wherever you like to vacation) that we don’t stop to enjoy the time leading up to it. I’ve found that some people don’t even actually seem to enjoy their time on vacation – they are too worried about making sure they have fun the next day, or planning out which restaurants to eat at or which places to go shopping, that they miss out on slowing down to enjoy the moment they’re in. It’s crazy but true!
Living in the now could look like keeping a gratitude journal of things you are thankful for each day. It could look like 20 minutes of quiet meditation, or stopping regularly throughout the day to remind yourself to slow down and appreciate where you are.
For me, it sometimes means that I choose to wait to worry about things until a later date. I’ll occasionally write myself a reminder to “worry” about something later on – that way I don’t forget, but I also don’t use up my mental space thinking about it too much.
What ways have you found to practice living fully in the present moment?
Thanks for reading.
*Full disclosure, I ended up not reading the entire book The Power of Now. I found it to be a little too new age-y for me, and some of it sort of rubbed me the wrong way. That being said, there are still some really great concepts in the book (which I've mentioned in this post). Just wanted to put this out there for those of you who may consider reading it.
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Sometimes just sitting still, closing my eyes and listening to the sounds around me and cues from my body, is a quick way to be present in the moment. I often put my hands to my heart and let the warmth of my hand sink into my chest. It is a good way to ground myself in a gentle, compassionate way.